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                          We often get frustrated when we fail to achieve something which was our goal to achieve and had done everything from our side to succeed. After failing to achieve the predetermined goal all we do is compare ourselves to that person who succeeded ahead of us. We all wonder, "Why our friend has best grades than me, though we study same duration of time, with the same teacher in the same class?"

If you are employed somewhere when your colleague succeeds you too will think "How he/she does that? you labor hard on your work, you commit yourself more and dedicate to be one of the best employee, but still you fail to be the success you have dreamed of. Ultimately you will start loosing faith in yourself, your confidence will be shaken because you start comparing yourself to others


I found this story and like to share with you friends. Which will help you to understand your true value.

                   One day I decided to quit. I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. I wanted to quit my life and went to the woods to have one last talk with the God,

"God", I asked, "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"
His answer surprised me
"Look around", He said.
"Do you see the fern and the bamboo?" " Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water, The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came  from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said. "In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In  fourth year, again there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit." he said.

Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it would not survive.

He asked me. "Did you know my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots.
"I would not  quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you."
"Don't compare yourself to others". He said, "The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful."

"Your time will come", God said to me. "You will rise high".
"How high should I rise?" I asked.
"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.
"As high as it can? I questioned". "Yes". He said, "Give me glory by raising as high as you can".
Then, I left the forest and returned back to my home.

I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you. Never, Never, Never ever Give up on yourself.

Don't tell God, how big the problem is; instead tell the problem how great God is and how he has always been in your rescue.

All of us want to succeed in what we are doing. We always watch for the person who has succeeded. But we never think what he/she had been  through to reach where he is at the moment. We all see the flying kite up in the sky. But we never realize what pressure(wind) it had to face to reach at that point. Success is never easy if it was, Every body would succeed easily. What story would you have to inspire others to reach at your success level?

So, Friends grow your roots, firm and strong in the ground. Build a base strong enough so that any external factors wouldn't have any effect on you and you would be in the path of success forever.

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